He lost his job a year ago and has since lost others. Prior to that he’d had his job 5 years when we met and had worked up to a pretty nice income. I am the primary provider for our family, and he does nothing around the house to help. I do everything except his laundry. All the child care, house cleaning, vehicle maintenance, appointments, pet care I have to handle or they don’t get done. Now he has resorted to lying to me to cover his laziness. It’s pretty bad when my 5 year-old will call him on it. He used to be very helpful now he’s just a lazy slob and I am getting sick to the point I don’t even want him around. Is there any hope?
Give him an ultimatum….get a job, limit the video games (severely – maybe 1 hour a day), or you are divorcing him.
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throw the game machine out the window and smash the games that should get his attention
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That’s not a husband that’s a big teenager living under your roof. I suggest marriage counsceling.
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then you stop doing the things you been doing till now.. just for a month.. dont cleanup dishes for a week..hahaha sink with full of dishes will put anyone to work hahahaa..
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Have you talked to him about how it is affecting you? If not, that is the first thing you should do. If he is not willing to change things after you discuss it with him, then you may need to move on and seek a divorce.
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Sounds like he might have depression. I would try to get him to see a doctor and make sure he is healthy. You could go with him and talk about why he will no longer help. If nothing changes then you might have to look into divorce.
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There’s no hope if all you do about the situation is ask for advice from strangers over the internet. If however you give him an ultimatum, go to a marriage therapist and stop treating him as if he’s your child instead of your mate, then maybe there’s hope.
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Give him an ultimatum….get a job, limit the video games (severely – maybe 1 hour a day), or you are divorcing him.
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Hope?
You kidding? If he hasn’t taken you or the responsibilities of being spouse and father for the past 365 days why would he change now?
Go find yourself a real man lady. All you’ve done is wed a child.
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Tell him you can not stand this situation anymore. Try to talk to him what he really wants and plans in his life and his family. If he is not willing to take a move and after all the talks and nothing will change then there is no hope. I think you have an idea now what to do after reading all the comments here. Leave him or you shorten your life with him.
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